Thursday, 22 February 2007
A Balancing Act
Nearly two weeks ago, I left sunny Mississippi to experience some of the harsh winter weather that had been sweeping the Midwest. I arrived in Milwaukee for the third of ASCE's leadership conferences only to be greeted by bitter winds and other bundled-up travelers. But this trip did give me the opportunity to wear a hat I had picked up in Siberia in the mid 1980s. I've had little opportunity to wear this hat in Vicksburg, Mississippi where our winter temperatures hover in the low 60s and few winter hats, much less ones covered in Iranian lamb fur, ever see the light of day. So I was happy to bring it out of the closet and put it to good use over the weekend!
Now there are hats you wear for warmth and hats you "put on" for a role you might serve in. One could say that in the past few months, I've worn many hats as ASCE president. The one hat that I put on regularly, particularly at these leadership conferences, is that of an experienced engineer, hoping to share some life-lessons I've collected over the years with others. I'm often asked: "How do you balance your career and your home life?" Well, it's never been easy. Sometimes you just have to prioritize your responsibilities and determine what is most important to you. Working your way up the food chain may be important to you. Or perhaps it's spending time with your family. Whatever it is, make sure that you make time for what is most important in your life. Once you've figured that out, the rest comes naturally...as naturally as wearing a fur-lined hat on a blistery winter day in Wisconsin.
How do you strike a balance?
